Tease & Denial Without the Stroking!
Posted on February 22, 2008
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I have a long time caller who is branching out into areas of BDSM other than strict Orgasm Denial or Guided Masturbation. As a phone sex Mistress, I am delighted that he has developed such trust of me that I select the training to be done on any given session.
During our last session, I decided upon a very sexy, sensual tease. I instructed him to visualize a beautiful woman in the apartment across from his. She comes into her bedroom, turns on the light, undresses, brushes her hair, begins to stroke herself and eventually masturbates. Then her husband comes home, undresses and, after a long time of stroking and teasing each other, they have sex.
During this entire session, my caller was on a “do not stroke” instruction. He told me he was “hard as a rock” and “getting harder and harder.” By the end of our hour-long call, he was panting and trembling as much as if he had been stroking at the edge for most of that time. He had not touched himself. Certainly he had not cum, although he was ready to do so.
I reminded him that as a stroker boy, he would never have what the man across the way had—a beautiful sensual woman to caress, kiss and make love to. After I reminded him that he was not to stroke, and most certainly not to cum before our next call, we ended the call. He was still breathing heavily and very excited.
Because this particular caller is very bright and has great visualization skills, I was able to create this wonderful scene for him and know that it would have the effect I wanted—namely, to get him to the edge and keep him there without his ever touching himself.
I look forward to exploring many other areas of BDSM with him in the upcoming months, knowing that his skills of visualization, combined with his eagerness to obey, will result in some very exciting sessions.
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Helping a New Feminization Caller Get Off to a Great Start – Part 2
Posted on February 21, 2008
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Working with new feminization callers can be expecially fun and rewarding, though it is challenging. They are embarking on a new experience, a new lifestyle. This can be exciting and scary all rolled into one. In addition, the lifestyle they are embracing is not always accepted by family and friends, which can also create issues.
As a phone sex Mistress, I listen to the depression, frustration, anger and upset from these callers. Frequently having someone to listen to them who understands and respects their lifestyle choice is a big help to the newbie. Once I listen, I direct them toward the training I can give them in achieving their feminization goals.
I do not necessarily include cocksucking as part of the training. Whether it is included depends strictly upon the caller’s preference. Many, if not most, cross-dressers are not interested in cocksucking. If they want a sexual relationship, it is with a female, not a male. So, instead of cocksucking lessons, I work with them on how to talk with a woman about their cross-dressing, their feminization.
All of this training is much easier to do if the caller has chosen to trust me to provide the bulk of their training and instruction. When the client calls other Mistresses in addition, differences in training methods and instructions that confuse the caller are very common. As a phone sex Mistress it is up to me to do my best to work with my callers to straighten out the confusion while still respecting the callers’ right to speak with any of our Mistresses. The goal is to help the client achieve the level of feminization to which they aspire. The client is calling for that help and I am ready to direct them toward achieving their feminization goal.
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Helping a New Feminization Caller Get Off to a Great Start – Part 1
Posted on February 20, 2008
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While most of my feminization callers are people who have been cross-dressing for quite some time, I occasionally get someone who is just new to the lifestyle. As a phone sex Mistress, I enjoy the new callers. It’s an opportunity for me to gain their trust and help them get started in their newly chosen lifestyle.
Many of the newbies have dressed somewhat for many years. Frequently, they started as a child by wearing panties taken from the dirty clothes hamper or their mother’s panty drawer. But now, as an adult, those yearnings for panties have turned into a desire to be more feminine, more girly.
In addition to help with clothing, makeup and hair, many of these callers desire to learn to change their voice and their body movements so they appear more feminine. Perhaps because of years of martial arts training, I am very good at helping people learn how to change their body movements. I know how difficult it is, and the many hours it takes to make the movements second nature. I am able to make concrete suggestions to them on how to start and how often to practice.
Something much more difficult to deal with is the depression and upset that frequently accompany such changes in lifestyle. I am not a therapist or psychologist; I have no training in those areas. I am a trained listener, a phone sex Mistress, and I do listen to the depression and frustration from my callers. After that, I steer them back to the feminization training they called to obtain and work with them in those areas.
In many cases, a sympathetic ear combined with some goal-directed training can help to alleviate some of the depression and frustration experienced by new feminization callers.
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Sensual Bondage with a Leather Fetishist
Posted on February 14, 2008
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Bondage does not have to be harsh or painfully restrictive. There are many ways of using standard bondage techniques in a very sensual way. This works particularly well when working with a leather fetishist.
As a phone sex Mistress, I have always enjoyed working with callers who love bondage and have the imagination to both visualize and feel themselves bound even though they are sitting at home or office.
Most listeners to my Cock Radio show will tell you that I mention frequently how much I love my leather boots and other leather clothing. What I don’t usually mention, though, is that I also love using leather implements during bondage sessions. While they are generally used in a manner that makes the training very strict and harsh, it’s also very possible to make the session very sensual using many of those same things.
I have one delightful caller who started out as a forced bi client. One day I put a leather hood on him so he couldn’t see the men and he went absolutely over the top. His level of excitement increased at least ten-fold. And I had found a great way to combine two great fetishes.
The leather harness, which can be used to lift him into the air, the leather hood, wrist and ankle restraints are all parts of the sensual bondage trainings being done. In fact, frequently, the forced bi is not important to him and he loves to bring other fantasies to the bondage room.
Now, of course, the leather harness is soft, supple leather. The hood has the wonderful leather smell that will drive him crazy. The ankle restraints have soft cotton wool on the inside, cradling his ankles.
I place each of these on him, along with a soft leather cock cage. I then lift him into the air and proceed to stroke the leather flogger strands over his body. Begging, of course, is required. Finally, the man or woman he is fantasizing comes into the room.
I love doing sensual bondage fantasies and my callers seem to enjoy them as well. This is one example of creatively using standard bondage gear in a sensual way.
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Creating Trust Between Mistress and Fetish Caller – Part 2
Posted on February 13, 2008
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In my last post, I discussed the trust that needs to exist between fetish caller and Mistress before the Mistress can truly begin to direct sessions and bring the caller along.
As a phone sex Mistress, the callers with whom I have developed this trust are some of the most rewarding callers I have. I always delight in a caller handing over ultimate control to me.
Recently, a long-time orgasm denial caller of mine decided it was time to trust me to take the lead and determine what the session will be each time he calls. We had experimented with body worship, cuckold, and some light spanking, all of which he enjoyed. With all that, I have a huge amount of information on which to draw in directing future sessions.
We discussed different ways things might go given his fetish interests and I learned a couple of new things. Yes, still listening. And I will continue to listen, of course.
I gave him 3 assignments to do prior to next week’s session. He is also being denied the right to stroke unless he is on the phone with me. These assignments, plus the stroking denial will keep his submissive status and our trainings high in his mind as he goes about his daily life. He expressed a desire, which he thought might not be possible to accomplish, to bring his fetish interests from exclusively fantasy to reality in his life. This is a very good first step toward creating reality from fantasy.
I will keep the lines of communication open as I move him forward into his increasingly new fetish reality.
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Creating Trust Between Mistress and Fetish Caller – Part 1
Posted on February 12, 2008
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One thing that happens when a caller does multiple calls with just one Mistress is that the two develop an increased level of trust. Once that happens, the training sessions become much more intense and rewarding for the caller.
As a phone sex Mistress, I know how difficult it is to create this level of trust. It takes lots of questioning and listening by me before I know enough about my caller to be able to take over deciding what each training session will contain.
Typically, when getting to know the fetish caller, I let him tell me what training he is seeking—orgasm denial, feminization, cuckold, humiliation, CBT, bondage, for example. From that, I begin basic training sessions in that area. At the same time, during each call, I ask questions. It’s true; some callers do not respond to questions and just want to spend their entire time on the phone on their fetish session. For such callers, a sufficient level of trust may never occur.
Other callers, though, understand the long term value of providing information to the Mistress so she is better able to direct the sessions more effectively. For those callers, the possibility of trust between caller and Mistress usually becomes reality.
As I obtain information and direct sessions so they increase the caller’s satisfaction, the level of trust increases. In fact, I believe trust increases in direct proportion to how well I listen to the caller and how much time the caller is willing to spend giving me information about himself and what really pushes his buttons.
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Creating a Great CBT Training – Part 2
Posted on February 7, 2008
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The use of toys and implements during CBT training is essential. The Mistress must know how to utilize each item to create the greatest effect for the caller. With my recent caller, that was very easily done.
Much more difficult is for Mistress and caller to make the mental connection to create a great training. Since my recent caller was new to me, this was something I needed to surmount. My caller helped both of us by providing me with information via email prior to the training. In fact, those emails also helped him prepare mentally for the sessions.
By the time he called, I already knew a lot about what he sought from the trainings, that he utilized the trainings to achieve sexual climax and that he did not have orgasms in between trainings. I also learned a it about his preferences in toys and was able to make certain he had items I wanted to use on hand.
While I would not characterize the resulting training as “great,” it was certainly much better than most first time trainings. I was able to elicit some very nice responses to my torture techniques. My caller did achieve his desired release, but was unable to hold off until ordered to release, so that was disappointing for him. Next time I will remember his sounds of getting close to the edge so I slow him down until I am ready for him to cum.
There is no doubt that the email communications with my caller before the call led to a much better first time call that usual. Many callers try different Mistresses, looking for that “great” experience. If they don’t get it the first time, they’re on to the next Mistress.
In my experience, the truly great CBT training happens after several calls with the same phone sex Mistress, when the caller trusts the Mistress not to exceed his requested level of torture and the Mistress knows how to push the envelope just a little bit with the caller.
So, a combination of information and experience gained from multiple calls with the same caller will result in that great CBT training and a wonderfully exhilarating experience for the caller.
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Creating a Great CBT Training – Part 1
Posted on February 6, 2008
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One of my favorite kind of call is CBT training. As a phone sex Mistress, I realize that it is less popular than feminization and stroker boy calls, both of which I enjoy. But there is something about the CBT training that makes it very compelling for both caller and Mistress.
Doing a good CBT training the first time you speak with a caller is not difficult. However, in order to do a great training, it’s necessary for the Mistress to know quite a lot more about the caller. This information usually comes through time, when doing trainings with the same person. It can also come from additional information given via email by the caller prior to or in between calls.
I recently had a first time CBT caller who provided lots of information to me prior to the call. Now, he was not new to CBT. He had lots of past experiences. Since it was to be his first call with me, he provided me with information so I could do a much better call than is typical for a first time caller.
He got several items I requested prior to calling so we could use them. This was important for me because I like to have a large number of “toys” from which to choose. I don’t necessarily use all of them each time, but I certainly want them available for play.
My caller enjoyed the alternating use of Icy-Hot gel, heat, wax, and ice. The effect of the batteries for electrical stimulation surprised him and added a new element for him. Instead of preparing a ginger root for figging, my caller preferred to coat an aneros with ginger juice. It seemed to work quite nicely for him.
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Feminization and the Fascination with Hair Curlers
Posted on February 5, 2008
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It seems no matter how many and varied my sissy, cross-dresser, transgender and transvestite callers are, the one thing that many of them love is the idea of having their hair done in curlers. To me, the idea of using curlers in my hair is abhorrent. I would not damage my hair by stretching and pulling it to roll it onto curlers, or bake it under the intense heat of a dryer.
For feminization callers, though, curlers are a part of femininity that they desire and embrace wholeheartedly. So, as a professional Mistress, in order to accommodate this fetish, I have learned a great deal about beauty salons, curlers, permanents, and hair care.
Now, when asked to do a “salon” training, I am prepared for it and able to draw the word picture that provides reality for my caller. We don’t start with the curlers or rollers being put in. Oh, no. In order to provide the full experience and excitement, we start by setting up the appointment. Then moving forward to the day and time of the appointment, I describe the caller as she enters the salon, is greeted by the receptionist, and is then taken to the stylist’s station. I always include the questions and conversation between the caller and the stylist because it increases the excitement level.
Naturally, there is a shampoo girl to shampoo the hair, a trim to get that freshly styled look and, finally, the stylist reaches for the curlers.
Detail is important here, and I spent some time in a salon observing how the stylists used curlers (not easy since not a lot of women request them). As a phone sex Mistress, I needed to learn as much as possible in order to create the perfect fantasy for my callers. Now my feminization callers know they can expect a wonderful salon fantasy when they call.
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Do you really want forced bi training, or just strapon training?
Posted on February 1, 2008
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Forced bi and forced cocksucking are frequently requested by callers. Within a few minutes, it becomes very obvious that the “forced” portion of the training isn’t really forced at all.
Some callers are sissies who want a phone sex Mistress to help them prepare for the possibility of actual cocksucking or bi-sexual experiences. Others want to experience it in fantasy but not in reality. Others are bi-curious and want the experience in fantasy before venturing out.
I recall one time working as a phone sex Mistress when I received a frantic message from a relatively new Mistress-trainee. She had a caller wanting forced bi and didn’t know what to do. I was in a session with a caller of my own and didn’t have time to train her or join her on her call to help. My message to her was, “put on a strapon, make him suck it, fuck him, then introduce real cocks.” I later realized that’s not a bad description of what happens—though we usually do it with a lot of creativity and includes various scenarios to make it interesting and exciting for the caller.
We also get a lot of calls on our new strapon femdommes site where callers are wonting to try out the idea of cocksucking and being fucked before perhaps moving on to a real cock. And, of course, many are there for the excitement and kick they get when the phone sex Mistress creates a great scenario and puts them in it so they feel and believe the experience.
That’s why you’re best off calling a phone sex Mistress for forced cocksucking and forced bi trainings—we can make it fun and exciting and give you as realistic an experience as is possible.
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